The Art of Conversation-
Prepare A Little Something To Say
I'm sure you'll agree that no one wants to talk to a bore. Whether we're at work or play, we all want to engage in conversations that are interesting and fun, not dull and tedious.
Fortunately, all we have to do to become someone people enjoy talking to is take a few moments to prepare a little something to say.
Find Out What’s Going On
Thanks to modern technology, you can listen to, read or watch the news all day, everyday if you have the time and inclination. In addition to traditional media, there are web sites,
e-zines and e-mail services galore all reporting the news. With all those sources of up-to-the minute news, you should never be without some topic of interest to talk about.
Even though people seem to like to talk about bad news, take special note of any good news you might hear. Stories that have happy endings are excellent subjects for conversation
because they inspire and uplift the hearer, and who wouldn't want to talk to someone who can do that?
Gather Specific Information
Another way to prepare a little something to say is by brushing up on subjects that will interest the people you know you will be talking to. Are you going to be attending a dinner
party with a cardiologist, or golfing with an attorney, or spending an evening with your Mother-In-Law, the avid gardener? Then find out about any new developments in his or her field
or hobby so that you can ask some insightful questions. Most people like to talk about what they do for a living or their favorite pastime.
Tell a Good Joke or Two
Telling a good joke is an excellent way to make a conversation interesting, but be careful. When you are not that familiar with the person you're talking to, avoid jokes that are insulting
or crude. A fat joke is not that funny to someone who is self-conscious about his weight.
Give It A Try
So the next time you're listening to the news, take note of any interesting stories you hear. Learn a little bit about the field or interests of the people you will be conversing with, and find a
tasteful joke or two. Having a little something to say will cause you to excel in the art of conversation.
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